First Kamal Hasan,then Sachin Tendulkar,and now My Dad and Mom

Year 2009 was very special to me, in terms of occasions.Great year for my admirable heroes

->Kamal Hasan's 50 th year in Cinema Industry
->Sachin's 20 yrs in International Cricket
->My parents 25th wedding anniversary

The third one is my pick.Yes exactly to say it was Dec 3rd 2009

I arranged a small family get together on this occasion, (I missed my guys, since the function fell on week day). Function went on really well with small surprises to the pair. Just ensured that this day remains as sweet memory to them. End of the day, had a good feel.

What will be the best thing a young kid/Guy deserved , its pretty simple

Love and affection from mother
Confidence and exposure from father

I am really blessed and lucky to get it with full quota

I thought of writing something based on this occasion.Let me start with a forward message

"People are made 2 be loved & thingsare made 2 be used...
But de confusion in De World is ..
People are being used & Things are being loved.."

R We Expressive??

If I put this question against our dear one or with our friends, 99% of us will be very proud in raising the collar to say "Yes we are are expressive"

If the same question is asked against our parents, the same 99% of us will say the answer "am not sure".

I am sure all guys love and care their parents to the core, but fail in expressing them, we wouldn't have even noticed them in recent time, (any doubt ? ) lets take it from college days(before that avanga controla taan naama irunthom)

* How much time we spend with them (comparing with the time we spend with our friends or lovers, its minimal almost zero)
* Have we ever thanked them, for many spl moments created by them
* Have we ever felt sorry in recent time
* Beyond all, have we expressed our true love and care for them

We should not blame ourself for this,coz its quite natural and even the generation gap plays its role (that too guys we wont even know that we are not expressive to our parents)

(Please note : Even I am a culprit of all the above scenarios)


Notice the unnoticed:

In life few things are very small,simple but are very beautiful too...In our routine life , we tend to miss them all

- little things,that are beatuiful go unnoticed
- Few moments or occasions go even before registering them as memories
- Few emotions left away unnoticed

These all happens between our loved ones(Especially with our parents)

Mother to son relation seems to be almost Okay among us, what about Father to son.Its a million dollar question.

I am confident everyone among us would have shed few drops of tears on watching the scene from “7G Rainbow Colony” that depicts the hidden affection and unshown emotions between father and son.

We got immersed in that, since it almost shown our relationship and character.

Life is beautiful:

Lets start doing small things from now on, to make our parents to feel more closer to us.
Its hard to express emotions to our parents that much sooner and suddenly.

I too felt that, but I took my parents wedding day as an occasion, I just expressed my thanks , sorry, love and much more emotions through a card and passed them the card end of the day

They just felt very happy on seeing that !!!